Tough BeansThe Divorce Chronicles: Is it normal to still cry?We’ve been through all of the milestones. The first year without him on my birthday. The first year without him on our anniversary. The…5 min read·Sep 5, 2023----
Tough BeansThe Divorce Chronicles: Learning to love againKintsugi, the Japanese art form of mending with gold so that it is stronger and more beautiful than its original state. To emphasize…4 min read·May 6, 2023----
Tough BeansThe Divorce Chronicles: The art of letting goI’ve been hearing it over and over and over and over again. “Let go”, they say. They all say it. Whoever I talk to. Some more than others…3 min read·Jul 4, 2022----
Tough BeansThe Divorce Chronicles: I got divorced todayWe saw each other for the first time in over a month since splitting homes two days ago. I didn’t really have any expectations or know what…5 min read·Jun 15, 2022----
Tough BeansThe Divorce Chronicles: This is how she feels when she breaks your heartShe doesn’t want anything to do with this. She hates the situation and she hates herself in this moment. She wishes more than anything that…4 min read·May 23, 2022----
Tough BeansThe Divorce Chronicles: How to divorce with decorumThose cliche sayings: “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone” or “Be careful what you wish for”. Irony in its best form, isn’t it…4 min read·May 8, 2022----
Tough BeansThe Divorce Chronicles: Moving out“I found it”, he said with that familiar smile on his face I grew so accustom to over the last eight years. His eyes were glistening with…5 min read·Apr 18, 2022----